when what you think & say, is so far appart from what people hear and think you said...How can you communicate efficiently ? should you still bother to speak? or just shut up and watch things unfold, even fall appart ?
people
Nature
Nature has got it right, and whenever we as humans think we can do better, it would be best to just stop there. Then to take a deep look inside asking can we really do better than nature, which has been around for quite a while before us. The honest answer will probably be no we can't do it better.
Helping out...
When I offer to help someone out, I find it quite natural to do what I offered.. I find it bewildering however when I tell someone about a problem I have, they offer me to take care of it and then just don't. (mind you I did not ask them for their help, no they just offered it) Since the help was voluntarily offered I figured I could count on it. Seems nowadays that principle no longer applies.. So if someone offers to help you out, best to ask another one to do the same, then at least the odds are slightly more in your favor....